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Joseph and His Soul of Many Colors

By Nita K Curry
November 20, 2000

“It is a great story of jealousies, lies, separation and eventual reconciliation.  Yet, it isn’t these characteristics that make this story one of my favorites.  It is the story of a man who was completely human.”

In all reality he probably deserved everything that came to him.  I can see him now, taunting his older brothers, slicing the psychic knife into his brothers that he was the favorite son; spending time with dad just enough to keep him from ever liking the other brothers more than him.  What he didn’t understand was that he was the favorite largely due to his father’s love for Rachel, his mother.  Those types of underlying emotions are noticed and noted, but never really understood by children until years later.  Joseph was probably too busy being the favorite to care about why he was the favorite. It probably wasn’t until later when the older brothers began to argue their view of their father’s love for them and their mother that this realization came to him.

Hurts lie so deep in families, and the family of Jacob and his wives were no different.  Maybe a little different because the older brothers finally had enough of Joseph when he began telling them about some ridiculous dreams he had.  It wasn’t until then that their incessant jealousies took over, and they began to plot against him.  Luckily for Joseph, he was only sold into slavery. 

We always look at Joseph with such awe and admiration for standing firm under fire during perilous times in his life, but I believe that Joseph, for all his godly attributes was only too human.  Growing up, his father and his father’s God had always preferred him, so his efforts at maturity were minimal.

Once he arrived in Egypt he became a part of Potipher’s house.  My guess is that it wasn’t so much Joseph’s wonderful attitude that eventually gave him such an esteemed position in Potiphar’s house, but it was the amazing self-confidence that Joseph exuded in his presence.  Don’t forget that this showoff characteristic is common among youngest siblings (Benjamin arrived well after Joseph). Joseph’s self-confidence must have been honed to perfection under the favoritism of his father, but it was that same self-confidence that kept getting him into trouble. 

The situation with Potiphar’s wife can be looked at as innocence trapped, but it was probably a young man who was so flattered by the attention of the boss’s lonely wife (yet another fan!) that he didn’t realize until too late that her intentions were poisonous. Soon he was in prison. 

It was in prison that Joseph was able to stop and think.  It was at this time in his life that he realized what a brat he had been. His prison stay was most likely when his conscience overcame his upbringing and he became a godly man.  Yahweh was no longer his father’s God, he had become Joseph’s God. 

Invariably, prison, age and experience greatly matured Joseph.  His good spirit became an excellent spirit and his walk with God began to have a confidence to it that had never been there before prison.  This confidence is in evidence when he was asked to interpret the dreams of the chief butler and chief baker; he neither faltered nor hesitated to deliver.  And Joseph said unto him, This is the interpretation of it.”  (Genesis 40:12)  Prison had been what Joseph needed to become the man God needed.  And his dependence was on God and his confidence of God. . .it became his ticket out and into Pharaoh’s favor.

When famine eventually hits, his long lost brothers at last arrive to buy grain. Joseph eventually and compassionately embraces them with open arms and envelops them into his life. 

So often we focus on the thankful brothers instead of the humbled Joseph. He had many flaws that kept getting him into trouble, yet when it came down to the ultimate meeting with his brothers, his true character emerged.  No longer was he the spoiled favorite son showing up his brothers. No longer was he the cocky “I’ve got the world by its tail” kind of kid. He, in all his humility, realized that in spite of his humanness and his many faults and mistakes, God had chosen him to not only save his family, but an entire nation. This is why he cried when he embraced them.

This story is beautiful and memorable because of his broken-ness at the point of reconciliation.

When I think about God and His goodness and realize that regardless of my human frailness, God chose me, He gave me salvation and He encircled me into His plan.  It still amazes me that God loves me this much.  Joseph is a beautiful story that illustrates just how far God will go to save those He loves. 

As God’s chosen ones, we should never exude a spirit of self-righteousness or attitudes that remotely infer that we are worthy of His mercy. We, like Joseph, should continually come before Him with broken-ness.  It is this type of broken-ness that heals the deepest of wounds and saves nations.  It’s a story I must always relearn and never forget.

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ã 2000, Nita K. Curry

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Nita K. Curry lives in Missouri and when not trying to figure out how to rearrange the furniture, she enjoys chasing after a little 2 ½ year old that she absolutely adores.

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