The Question:
Couples
are incompatible when…
The Answer:
“They're each looking out for #1.”
The Answer:
“One is living for God, and one is not living for God.”
The Answer:
“They can't communicate. And most communication is listening.”
The Answer:
“Their life goals are not the same.”
The Answer:
“They both don't want to serve God.”
The Answer:
“One is a spender non-worker and the other is a working saver.”
The Answer:
“One wants many kids and the other does not.”
The Answer:
“One wants to work in the ministry and the other just wants
to be married to a minister. It will not work--they must be a
team for the ministry.”
The Answer:
“Each person has his/her own agenda and forgets they are
a 'we' not a 'me.' Also so important, it is not a couple thing,
either. It is three persons in the agreement + God is the
glue that holds me to you.”
The Answer:
“For compatibility, they need to share the same interests
in activities and have an attraction for and patience with the
other's personality.”
The Answer:
“They have opposing worldviews.”
The Answer:
“They don't have the same goals in life or the ways they
plan on getting to a common goal are opposite one another.”
The Answer:
“They're not compatible?”
The Answer:
“They degrade one another.”
The Answer:
“One is materialistic and the one wants to give to those
less blessed.”
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