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Reader's responses to The Big Question.

May 19, 2008

The Question:  Couples are incompatible when… 

The Answer:  “They're each looking out for #1.” 

The Answer:  “One is living for God, and one is not living for God.” 

The Answer:  “They can't communicate. And most communication is listening.” 

The Answer:  “Their life goals are not the same.” 

The Answer:  “They both don't want to serve God.” 

The Answer:  “One is a spender non-worker and the other is a working saver.” 

The Answer:  “One wants many kids and the other does not.” 

The Answer:  “One wants to work in the ministry and the other just wants to be married to a minister. It will not work--they must be a team for the ministry.” 

The Answer:  “Each person has his/her own agenda and forgets they are a 'we' not a 'me.' Also so important, it is not a couple thing, either. It is three persons in the agreement  + God is the glue that holds me to you.” 

The Answer:  “For compatibility, they need to share the same interests in activities and have an attraction for and patience with the other's personality.” 

The Answer:  “They have opposing worldviews.” 

The Answer:  “They don't have the same goals in life or the ways they plan on getting to a common goal are opposite one another.” 

The Answer:  “They're not compatible?” 

The Answer:  “They degrade one another.” 

The Answer:  “One is materialistic and the one wants to give to those less blessed.” 

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