Aren't you glad to see that the title wasn't "Uptown Girl?"
Me too.
I feel it only fair to warn you all that I'm in a bit of a strange humor today. I'm not sure if it's due to having a week off from blogging, from my increasing internal searchings or quite simply from random boredom and the rain outside.
So, let's see what is going on in the rest of the world.
IsraelMidnight tonight is the deadline for
Israeli settlers in the West Bank and the Gaza Strip to abandon their homes. As I mentioned last week, I am very torn about this. I have a passion for Middle Eastern politics and have some knowledge of how that part of the world has emerged into the political and geographical shape that it is in today. That being said, I still can't imagine being told that I had to leave the only home I'd ever known, either by free will or by force. Add to that the knowledge that my home was going to be handed over to the very people that for years had been killing my friends and loved ones either in war, riots or suicide bombings; the very people that are dancing victoriously in the streets just a few miles away.
I can't help but believe that Ariel Sharon has made a huge mistake in handing this territory over to the Palestinians. You can say what you want and argue about it until you are blue in the face but as the old saying goes "to the victor go the spoils of war" and Israel has every right to keep those lands. Mr. Sharon claims that handing these areas back to the Palestinians will help to promote peace. I guess that explains the masked gunmen heading toward the Gaza settlements. Even more concerning is that these same members of Hamas are claiming their victory over Israel through bloodshed. That's right, they are openly stating that the reason the territory in Gaza and the West Bank are being returned to them is because of the innumerable suicide bombings and great loss of life that have taken place in the last few years. In the wake of the bombings in London this should strike a chord of fear in all of our hearts.
I fail to see how a leader could honestly think that this will help bring peace to his blood soaked country. All he has managed to do is
embolden his enemy and anger his citizens. I suppose all I can do at this point is to see how things unfold and do as Christ instructed in
Psalms 122:6.
Plane CrashesIt has not been a good week for the aviation industry. A Helios Airways flight crashed in
Greece Sunday killing all 121 on board in a freak accident where they froze to death/suffocated before ever hitting the ground and today a West Caribbean Flight crashed in
Venezuela killing 160. I know they say that flying is safer than driving but it's hard to remember that when nearly 300 people have died in plane crashes less than 24 hours apart.
Hooray for HollywoodActually, all is quiet on the western front. Blissfully so. As a former L.A. resident, I'd like to asser that this calm is brought on by the fact that it has finally gotten warm enough in L.A. to go to the beach and actually get in the water. It's never warm enough until August and September is the hottest month of the year in L.A. Keep that in mind when you're planning your vacations.
An Open Address to MeddlersEssentially a blog is a place to share personal comments, views, opinions, etc. Today I'd like to take advantage of that luxury.
Why is it that if you are over 22 and still single people think (ok, Apostolic people think) that there is something wrong with you? And moreover why do they feel it is their God-given right, no, their duty to change your marital state?
My roommate is notorious for this. She is constantly suggesting different people that I "might" be interested in. Or, if we are out somewhere (a conference, etc) she is forever nudging me in the side, raising her eyebrows and pointing out guys to me. Not to be too harsh on her, my best friend is the same way. On a recent visit from Louisiana to New York she decided that she could find someone for me to date among her other connections here. And asks me on a regular basis if I've gone to meet this guy yet. It is as if now that they have found blissful (saccharine, nauseating, coma inducing) happiness they are determined that I must achieve the same state.
Well, I have a newsflash for them (and the rest of the world) . . . God is single and happy about it, what makes you think I can't be?
It's not that I don't have any desire to fall blindly in love and get married. I do. It's just that for me obtaining that piece of bling for the third finger of my left hand is not my all consuming passion in life. I'm 27 (told you I wasn't afraid to share my age), and living in one of the most amazing cities on the planet. I have a college education, I've traveled to various places around the world. But most of all I am comfortable with my own company.
I am quick witted, independent, and somewhat opinionated. I can hold an intelligent conversation, I love children and I am an amazing cook. And someday I will find someone who can accept and appreciate all of those qualities (and more).
I have watched one too many marriages fall apart or suffer greatly because the parties involved married too quickly, had no common interests, only wanted a physical relationship or thought marriage would fix all of their problems. I have no desire to be a statistic. Have you ever considered that I'm single because I choose to be?
So stop feeling sorry for me. The Apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 4:11, "Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." I have to agree with him. And at the moment, my "state" is single and I am content with that.
Questions, comments, concerns? Please feel free to E-mail me!